Archive for the ‘Thoughts’ Category
Organizing Photos on Flickr
Currently I have 1,500 photos on Flickr and the stream has become a mishmash of photos. Some are quick snapshots. Some are from my cellphone. Others are photos of events or places I’ve traveled to share with friends and family. Lastly there are my good photos. Combined everything starts looking a little snapshot’ish. To limit this confusion I now post most of my quick cellphone photos to Twitpic, Pegshot or Facebook. Still, I’m sure there is more that can be done.
I’ve been thinking about re-organizing everything. With thoughts ranging from creating a new Fickr account just for the better stuff, to reworking the folders and sets. I can’t be the only one with this issue, any suggestions?
Apple revisits New York Times’ homepage

Once again Apple has paired up with the New York Times to create an ad users actually want to see. This time it’s for a homepage integration/takeover featuring multiple ads all working in unison. Similar to Apple’s TV ads, this site integration features John Hodgman (PC) and Justin Long (MAC) talking about their differences. In this case John is commenting on the results of a Forrester Research poll, shown in the ad space above theirs, when two characters from yet another ad space join in on the conversation. Before they start talking they seemed to fade into the pages background drawing little to no attention. When the main ad is complete the two secondary ads fade to an unobtrusive white panel with a floating Apple logo. Allowing those that keep the NY Times open all day (to see news updates) not to be barraged with Apple, Apple, Apple.
Though this isn’t the first time for Apple it’s still worthy of the viral attention is getting/has gotten. It’s cleanly designed and executed. Continues the sense of humor that has made these ads a hit for the last few years. Makes great use of its environment. It may only run a single day but I’m sure both parties make out as winners each time they meet.
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Apple
New York Times
John Hodgman
Justin Long
Why all the mind games?
I just ran into someone I know from the neighborhood. He’s recently single and tends to bemoan women and the mind games they play. Ironically, when he heard that I was also single he began to offer suggestions of various mind games for me to use, either to win her back or just mess with her head. It’s clear that it’s not just women that play these game, he’s a clear example of a male that partakes in the subtle attacks to an ex’s psyche. This irony along with how much this playing of mind games contrasts to my view got me thinking about the subject.
For all those that do play these games I ask Why? If you didn’t work as a couple, why shouldn’t your ex pursue something that could make them happy? If you really cared for them, why can’t you be happy for them when they do things to be happy? Do you really think it has some reflection on you or their feelings for you? Is it just self pity? Does suggesting that your new love is everything, or implying they (your ex) weren’t really help you feel more secure in your new relationship? Or are you trying to convince yourself that you’ve moved on?
I know I’ve had ex’s try this crap with me. I don’t know if they got what they wanted out of it, but I do know the games never made me want them more (or want to get back together). Yeah, they may have gotten me riled up for a bit with a mixture of confusion to their purpose and agitation caused by the amplified echo of the problems we had during the relationship. Either way the games never brought me closer, at least not when I was aware that games were being played. If anything, I think it cemented that I was better off not being in a relationship with them.
As mentioned, I’m currently single and this isn’t the first time I’ve been single either. Unknowingly I may be guilty of doing some of these things myself, and if so I apologize, but I can say in good conscience that I never meant to. For one thing, I don’t really see the point to them. Secondly, it may be because I believed my ex’s actually did care for me (read: loved) and I didn’t feel the need for the reassurance one may be looking for when playing these games. In the more casual relationships, their love/approval etc. wasn’t relevant to my well being. I’ve also tried to make sure this wasn’t a question that would haunt them either.
According to some, mind games are an essential part of relationships. Suggestions of “playing hard to get” fill magazines, and though that may lure a date or two, a relationship it does not make. At the early stages of a relationship the stakes are low, and such games have more to do with catching the other’s attentions. The games people play at the end of a relationship, sadly, often have more to do with hurting the partner then the cutesy ones used at the beginning. It’s these latter ones that my neighbor was suggesting and I can only assume using himself. It’s these I don’t understand.
There are no free lunches
One of the first thing you learn in Economics is “There is no such thing as a free lunch.” It’s a lesson that seems to be quickly forgotten. Thanks to the Internet everything seems like it can and should be free. So who’s paying?
For many sites, ad revenue is paying for the content/service being provided. Even more profitable is information, specifically user (read: your) information. The old saying that knowledge is power holds true online as well. The more info about who you are the more relevant they can target the ads presented to you. A better targeted ads bring in higher revenues.
Combining multiple user’s data into anonymous and general statistical data can be worth even more. Marketing companies will pay big money to get access to qualified demographical date. It doesn’t have to be much or even private. Knowing things like how many 11-14yr olds saw the Transformers movie, could be the deciding factor between releasing Product X or Product Y. The collecting and selling of statistical data is nothing new. It’s the same principle behind the membership cards at the grocery store, VISA and those people at the mall that just want to ask you a few questions.
Facebook like many other social networking sites are rich with statistical information. Well, a few weeks ago Facebook altered their Terms of Service (TOS) to assume permanent ownership rights of any content that the users add to their service. Then yesterday, under mass protest from users, they returned to their previous TOS while they rework the verbiage. Ultimately Facebook (and others) wants the ability to use/sell any data collected without worry of legal entanglements. Someone needs to pay for the endless hours users spend using their site.
Just like your first economics class told you, there is no such thing as a free lunch. The Internet with all it’s innovations is still subject to this rule. The free ride of the social web is paid for by the ads we see and the personal data we provide. It’s just something to keep in mind while you enjoy your lunch.
Change is in the air
America welcomes the first Africa-American president, more importantly the first non-Anglo president. America is no longer only refugies from Western Europe. It truly is a menlting pot of the world. Barack, with his background & upbringing is a symbol of this integration of people and cultures.
Still, that’s not the biggest result of Barack Obama’s winning the Presidential race. It was the mobilization of America’s youth (GenX & GenY), whether for him or against, to participate in the political and election process. He motivated the cynical and disconnected to act, to care, to join in the conversation that will shape the future.
Personally, I choose Obama for a future based on hope rather then fear. On unity over division and the failures caused by it. I know there are many obsticles that can keep some these ideals from materializing, but the mental sea change in those that supported him is a step in seeing a world less divided.
Countries all over the world are excited by the end of an era. An era where the US arogantly ignored allies and the will of it’s people. Where the US played bully and police in the same motion. This era is over, replaced with a president that shows diplomacy, honesty and an understanding that we are but one country in this world, regardless of our place in it.
I look forward to see how this man, his ideals and a nation recharged will take on the issues of tomorrow. My cynisism taking a backseat for hope to take its place.
Welcome back America.
